Tucson Family Law Blog

In Arizona and family courts around the world, it is becoming increasingly evident that decisions made during the divorce process are more likely to succeed when couples work through the process together. Negotiations and agreements settled outside a courtroom often have more relevance to the couple's unique situation, and spouses are more likely to abide by them if they had a hand in preparing them.

If you and your spouse are planning to divorce, you may have special concerns about the division of property. Arizona divides community property equally, but you and your spouse may have definite ideas about how you want to split what is yours. Courts encourage couples to take this step before coming to court, and you may benefit from some suggestions for achieving success in your negotiations.

The divorce process can be confusing and difficult, both emotionally and financially. However, just because you are preparing for divorce doesn't mean the process has to feel like a war with your spouse.

You and your spouse might have varying views regarding the best method for addressing matters such as property division, child custody and child support. If you and your future ex-spouse are willing to find common ground, you may benefit from using the procedure of collaborative divorce versus traditional divorce litigation in Arizona.

One of the biggest changes in your family life after divorce may be the way you spend your holidays. If you and your former spouse grew used to going all out and hosting large gatherings for your friends and family in Arizona, your first years of Christmas and other major holidays following divorce may take a bit of getting used to. Especially where your children are concerned, it's important to remember that you are the one who got divorced, not them.

If your kids look forward to seeing their cousins, grandparents and other relatives during the holidays, they will likely hope you and their other parent allow them to keep doing so even though you're no longer married. Good intentions and bringing a plan to fruition, however, are two entirely different things. If your former spouse is not willing to cooperate and compromise, incorporating holidays into your custody plan may be quite challenging.

During a divorce, couples are more likely to fight over custody and money-related issues than any other issue. What will happen to your kids is one of your main concerns during the divorce process, and you will understandably seek an outcome that protects their best interests above all else.

The custody arrangement that is best for your Arizona family depends on the unique nature of your individual situation. There is no one-size fits all custody plan, but many families find that they are able to work well with a joint custody arrangement. Any decision made during a divorce will impact your family for years to come, and it is useful to fully understand your custody options before you make a final decision.