Tucson Family Law Blog

Arizona is home to many married couples who will divorce this year or at some time in the future. In fact, divorce has become so common in the United States that you would likely consider it far rarer to not know someone who has been through divorce than to know two, three or more people who have. Your personal priorities regarding your upcoming divorce may or may not be similar to someone else you know who has navigated the process. 

If one or more people have suggested that you try mediation rather than litigating your divorce, you'll want to research the potential advantages and disadvantages of this alternative negotiation method before determining if it's a viable option for your situation. Friends and family members who have used mediation to settle their divorces are among many valuable resources you can tap into for experienced guidance and support. 

Note: Names have been changed to protect the privacy of this family. It has taken nearly a decade for one of the parents to come forward and finally talk about one of the strangest divorce kidnapping cases in Tucson history.

My marriage started the same as most - happy, hopeful, and full of excitement. There had been problems later in the relationship, but we also had a young, amazing daughter together. And more than anything, we wanted to be a happy family. Besides, every relationship has its ups and downs. You don't want to quit because you hit a small bump in the road. But into the marriage, the small bumps became an unending roller coaster ride. And that ride did eventually end, but unfortunately in chaos, despair, and a national kidnapping case.

Now that your divorce is final, you likely feel ready to move on in life, get a fresh start and begin building new, happy memories with your kids. You've talked with them about how life changes, but that doesn't necessarily mean change always makes things worse. Each of your kids may have reacted to your divorce differently. You understand there may be challenges along the way, but you're determined to have a good summer and future together.  

Keeping your stress levels as low as possible regarding your co-parenting situation with your ex may be a major factor toward having a fun summer. If this is your first summer as a single parent, it might take some doing to develop a routine that works for all involved. The good thing is that there are plenty of support resources available in Arizona to help you and your kids overcome any obstacles that arise.  

The end of your marriage will bring many significant changes to your life, as well as the life of your child. Arizona parents have understandable concerns regarding the well-being of their children during this process, seeking a final order that is beneficial and sustainable long into the future.

Addressing child custody can be a complex issue for some families. Concerns over your child's safety and welfare may affect your custody and visitation order, yet as the parent, you always have the right to protect your kids. Before you agree to an arrangement or make any important decisions that could affect your family for years to come, it can be helpful learn more about the factors that could affect visitation schedules.